Umkhehlo Traditional Ceremony











Umkhehlo (Zulu engagement ceremony) is a rite of passage ceremony for a Zulu woman about to get married. Family, friends, neighbours, and her in-laws come and rejoice and pin money on her hat, scarf, and umbrella. This money is given so as to help her prepare for the wedding and buy gifts (umabo) for her in-laws.

Umkhehlo is a Zulu traditional pre-wedding ceremony. the ceremony is done for a woman who is about to get married. it takes place after lobola has been paid. Through this ceremony, she is basically saying goodbye goodbye to her family.

The groom buys the cow for the ceremony and the woman is showered with money and other gifts. She also dresses the cow fat called umhlwehlwe. others have called it the Zulu Bridal Shower or the Traditional Engagement Ceremony.

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  1. Phiwa25 April 2022 at 10:34

    ❤️ Exactly

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  2. Unknown25 April 2022 at 10:35

    This ceremony sounds cool 😎

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  3. Ntombenhle Msimango25 April 2022 at 10:44

    It's good to see a young lady still upholding their African culture

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  4. Anonymous25 April 2022 at 10:49

    Wow this is so interesting, I like this ceremony

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  5. Anonymous25 April 2022 at 10:56

    Can you do umkhehlo if you have a child from a previous relationship?

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  6. Anonymous25 April 2022 at 10:58

    I will do this to my wife as a proud African ����

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  7. Anonymous25 April 2022 at 23:31

    Wow my husband did it for me before marriage,it is enjoyable I got a lot of gifts

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  8. Anonymous11 July 2023 at 05:13

    Umkhehlo uyenzelwa yini umuntu osezale kwenye indawo aphinde agane enzelwa umkhwenya kodwa umakoti ezalele ekhaya enezingane zakomunye umuzi

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